Bringing love

into the world

 

 

 

A Way of the Cross

for children

 

Note:

This "Way of the cross" sees the death of Jesus on the cross
without atonement theology and sacrifice theology

 

Manfred Hanglberger

 

 

 

LINK to share:
https://hanglberger-manfred.de/en-kinderkreuzweg.htm

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Instructions for implementation

When communion children celebrate a Stations of the Cross devotion in a church for the first time, it makes sense to design them on the basis of the Stations of the Cross pictures that are attached to the church. In this way, the children learn to consciously perceive their church and the images it contains and to find an inner connection to them.

 

At each station, the leader has a short conversation with the children about the respective picture.

The texts "A" and "B" are read by two adults. The leader says the prayer and for the first part of the alternating prayer at the end of each station, children are to be divided before the devotional.

For the "role play" in the 1st station, the child who takes on the role of Jesus receives a copy of the corresponding text.

 

For the song in the 14th station, either a poster of a space photo of the earth and the lyrics “God loves this world” (GL 464, 1st and 6th verse) are prepared, or a little earth in a bowl and the lyrics “A handful of earth” (songbooks, 1st and 3rd verse).

 

After the devotion, the children can be given a small wooden cross or a devotional picture with a cross and the text of the cross meditation (see in the 12th station) or “the prayer before the cross” (see in the appendix) to take home with the invitation to pray this text as an evening prayer.

 

 

Introduction

Dear children,

today we are dealing with something very sad: the Way of the Cross of Jesus.

But in this sadness there is hidden a great power and a great truth.

And we want to discover this power and this truth today.

Perhaps you have already noticed the pictures on the church walls.

Today we want to take a closer look at them and understand what they mean.

Count how many pictures there are.

 

The children count the Stations of the Cross.

 

Yes, there are 14 Stations of the Cross.

Let us now begin with a prayer.

 

 

Prayer

Jesus, it is incomprehensible that the leaders of your people have condemned you to death.

You brought the love of God into our world and showed that this love applies to all people, not just your people the Jews, not just a certain religion, but to humans of all peoples and religions.

 

You wanted all peoples and all humans in the world to live together in justice and peace. You have shown that God is above all on the side of the weak, the oppressed and the poor - and that he is also close to sinners in his mercy and wants to help them to find the right path again.

Help us, as we now look at the images of your suffering, to get to know and understand you better and that we too remain just and loving people when we are treated unjustly or experience bad things. 

 

 

 

 

1st Station

 

Jesus is condemned to death

 

Leader: What do we see in the picture?

 

             The children tell.

 

A    Pilate is the powerful governor of the Romans. He is the representative of the Emperor of Rome.

B    The Romans had conquered and occupied the land of the Jews.
Pilate does not want unrest in the country.
But the leaders of the Jews told him that this Jesus was a troublemaker, that he was inciting the people against the leaders of the people.
Jesus had actually said that the leaders of the people were oppressing the people instead of helping them. They were very angry about this and hated Jesus and now wanted to have him killed.
Since only the Roman governor was allowed to pronounce death sentences, they harassed and lied to him until he was ready to sentence Jesus, who was innocent, to death.

 

 

Role play

Two children are assigned the roles of Jesus and a woman. Everyone stands in a circle.

Leader: We will act out a story from the Gospel so that we can see how Jesus fought against the condemnation of other people:

 

At the time of Jesus, a group of people once wanted to kill a woman because she had sinned.

The child playing the woman stands in the middle of the circle. Everyone points their finger at her and says:

 

All:        You are to blame! You are to blame! You are to blame!

Then Jesus goes to her, stands on her side and says:

 

Jesus:   Don't judge! Which of you is without sin? Why do you see the fault in others and are blind to your own faults? So now take your fingers away and beat your own breasts!

 

Everyone beats their own breast.

Jesus:   Once again I say to you, do not judge!

 

Prayer:

Jesus, keep us from pointing a condemning finger at someone or put someone down and accusing them unjustly.

 

Child: Jesus, you look with love on each one of us.

All:      Let us become just and helpful people.

 

 

 

2nd Station

 

Jesus takes the cross on his shoulders

 

Leader: What do we see in the picture?

 

                The children tell.

 

A: After Jesus is condemned, he has to carry the cross himself out to the city where he is to be killed.

 

B: Jesus had lifted or lightened the burdens of so many people:
People who were sick or outcast or despised by others.
Now the worst burden is placed on him by people: the burden of an unjust death.

 

Prayer:

Jesus, help us to free one another from burdens so that everyone can breathe a sigh of relief and be respected again.

Keep us from making life difficult for others.

 

Child: Jesus, you look with love on each one of us.

All:      Let us become just and helpful people.

 

 

 

3rd Station

 

Jesus falls the first time

 

Leader: What do we see in the picture?

 

              The children tell.

 

A: It is cruel that Jesus, who has already been unjustly condemned, should also have to carry this heavy cross, which is simply too heavy for one person alone.

 

B: Even today, some people burden others with tasks that overwhelm them. Some parents and teachers expect something from a child to do that it can't manage and then, full of fear, don't know what to do. Some children also expect things from their parents for which they don't have enough money. Then the children are angry and the parents are depressed and sad.

 

Prayer:

Jesus, keep us from asking others to do things that overwhelms them, that they simply cannot manage.

 

Child: Jesus, you look with love on each one of us.

All:      Let us become just and helpful people.

 

 

 

4th Station

 

Jesus meets His Mother

 

Leader: What do we see in the picture?

 

              The children tell.

 

A: Mary sees her son, who just a few days earlier had been cheered by the people in the capital Jerusalem. They had greeted him enthusiastically by waving palm branches.

 

B: Now, condemned to death, he staggers under the heavy cross towards the place of execution: Not cheers, but mockery and derision from the people at the side of the road. Mary sees Jesus, her son, suffering so much and is unable to help him. It is a terrible pain for the mother.

 

Prayer:

Jesus, sometimes we cannot help a suffering person. Make us ready to go and show him without words that we are close to him and suffer with him. That can sometimes be a great comfort.

 

Child: Jesus, you look with love on each one of us.

All:      Let us become just and helpful people.

 

 

5th Station

 

Simon of Cyrene helps Jesus to carry his cross

 

Leader: What do we see in the picture?

 

              The children tell.

 

A: The soldiers see that Jesus can no longer carry the cross alone.

 

B: A farmer is just passing by from working in the fields. His name is Simon of Cyrene. They tell him to help Jesus carry the cross. Jesus, who had helped so many people in their suffering, is now grateful that he is also getting help.

 

Prayer:

Jesus, make us ready to gladly help those who don´t know what to do or is at the end of his strength. Keep us from being arrogant about it or looking down on those in need of help.

 

Child: Jesus, you look with love on each one of us.

All:      Let us become just and helpful people.

 

 

 

6th Station

 

Veronica wipes the face of Jesus

 

Leader: What do we see in the picture?

 

              The children tell.

 

A: Exhausted by the endless toil, drops of sweat run down Jesus' forehead and into his eyes so that he can no longer see. Then a woman overcomes her fear of the soldiers, runs to Jesus and compassionately hands him a cloth so that he can wipe the sweat from his face.

 

B: How many of the curious onlookers on the side of the road must have mocked this courageous woman?

 

Prayer:

Jesus, help us not to be curious onlookers and gawk when someone else is wronged or needs our help. Let our compassion be stronger than our fear that we might make a fool of ourselves and that others might gossip about us.

 

Child: Jesus, you look with love on each one of us.

All:      Let us become just and helpful people.

 

 

 

7th Station

 

Jesus falls the second time

 

Leader: What do we see in the picture?

 

              The children tell.

 

A: The road to execution is long and the cross is heavy. Despite Simon's help, Jesus stumbles and falls to the ground again.

 

B: Perhaps it was not only the cross that was an oppressive burden for Jesus, but also the indifference and envious rejection of many people.
His message of justice for all people still had no place in the world.

 

Prayer:

Jesus, you have brought faith in the power of love and faith in justice for all people into the world. Help us to keep this faith within us and to work towards a better world through this faith.

 

Child: Jesus, you look with love on each one of us.

All:      Let us become just and helpful people.

 

 

 

8th Station

 

Jesus meets the women of Jerusalem

 

Leader: What do we see in the picture?

 

              The children tell.

 

A: Jesus had defended women and protected them from the paternalism and oppression by men that was common at the time. Many women therefore hoped that Jesus would usher in a new, better time for them.

 

B: But now that they see that the powerful have condemned Jesus to death and that they let him carry his cross so cruelly and shamefully, they are full of pity for him and despair, because then nothing will change for the better for them.

 

Prayer:

Jesus, you have always taken the side of those who were oppressed, disadvantaged or helpless. Let us make sure that boys and girls, women and men treat each other fairly and that one respects the other.

 

Child: Jesus, you look with love on each one of us.

All:      Let us become just and helpful people.

 

 

9th Station

 

Jesus falls a third time

 

Leader: What do we see in the picture?

 

              The children tell.

 

A: Jesus is exhausted to death and falls to earth for the third time. He is at the end of his strength. With great difficulty, he gets up again to continue on his way.

 

B: How many people who were emotionally devastated and didn't know what to do, he had lifted up just a few weeks earlier, encouraged them and showed them a way to get on with their lives?

 

Prayer:

Jesus, help us when we are discouraged and powerless and do not know what to do. Let us then feel that you are there to lift us up and give us the strength to complete our tasks again.

 

Child: Jesus, you look with love on each one of us.

All:      Let us become just and helpful people.

 

 

 

10th Station

 

Jesus clothes are taken away

 

Leader: What do we see in the picture?

 

              The children tell.

 

A: Jesus had reproached the rulers and those who were clothed in noble garments for their injustices.
They now want to humiliate Jesus and expose him to the mockery of the onlookers by tearing his clothes from his body. In doing so, they want to take away all honor from him; they also want to kill him mentally.

 

B: Jesus had restored the honor and reputation of so many people who were despised by others. Now he is to pay for it.

 

Prayer:

Jesus, keep us from exposing and despising another. Help us when we feel ashamed and inferior because we have disgraced ourselves and fear the ridicule of others. 

 

Child: Jesus, you look with love on each one of us.

All:      Let us become just and helpful people.

 

 

 

11th Station

 

Jesus is nailed to the cross

 

Leader: What do we see in the picture?

 

              The children tell.

 

A: It's always shocking how cruel and unfeeling some people can be. Without mercy and without compassion, they inflict endless pain on other people.

B: But the soldiers at that time were acting on orders. They were told that Jesus was a rebel against the Romans. They had already crucified many Jews on Pilate's orders because some Jews resisted the unjust rule of the Romans, and Pilate cruelly crushed all resistance.
But Jesus prays for his executioners:
"Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing."

A: Yes, these people do not know that Jesus came to convert all people to justice and humanity. Many don't even believe that this is possible.

 

Prayer:

Jesus, it is very difficult for us to be kind to those who have done evil to us.

But you want us to strive to understand why people are difficult and do evil.

Help us to succeed in reconciling and making peace with those with whom we have experienced strife and enmity.

 

Child: Jesus, you look with love on each one of us.

All:      Let us become just and helpful people.

 

 

 

12th Station

 

Jesus dies on the cross

 

Leader: What do we see in the picture?

 

              The children tell.

 

A: The cross on which Jesus died has become the identifying mark of us Christians.
When we were baptized as small children, the priest and our parents made the sign of the cross on our foreheads. So this sign, and with it the spirit of Jesus, is imprinted on our body and in our soul.

B: What does this mean?
The vertical line of the cross connects the earth and heaven within us.
We are children of Mother Earth and should know that we are connected to all life on this earth. And we are Children of God: God says YES to each one of us. He looks at us with love. Each one of us is important and valuable to him.
Heaven should touch and transform the earth, just as Jesus transformed the lives of many oppressed people for the better.
The horizontal line of the cross invites us to know that we are connected to all people around the world.

 

Cross Meditation with the Body

 

Everyone moves apart a little so that everyone has space to spread their arms to form a cross with their body.

 

I stand upright and spread my arms so that my body forms a cross. I feel the vertical line of my body from my head over my spine to my feet and the horizontal line from my chest, where my heart is, to my outstretched arms and hands.

 

Now I feel my feet, feeling the firm hold they find on the ground. Through my feet and the ground, I feel connected to the entire Earth, which produces all life and provides living space for all and nourishes all. I am "grounded," I belong to the great community of life on Mother Earth.

 

Now I feel my body, which points upwards like a pillar toward the sky. The "above," the sky, is a symbol of the divine. With my head, with my senses, I perceive that God is looking at me with love. He says YES to me and gives me inner support and deep self-confidence. He trusts me to handle the gift of my life responsibly and to treat well my fellow human beings and everything He has created.

 

Now I feel towards the horizontal line of my body: towards my chest with my heart and towards my outstretched arms and hands. My hands are open, not closed, not fists. Through my outstretched hands, I know I am connected to all people around the world. Open hands allow us to reach out to one another, to connect with others, to help and wave to others. Open hands can give and receive gifts. Open hands are a sign of an open heart, of a heart that feels compassion for the fate of others and is ready to offer sympathy and comfort.

 

The cross of Jesus connects heaven and earth and people worldwide as sisters and brothers. Likewise, as a Christian, I am connected to the earth and to heaven. I want to respect people of all nations and religions as children of God, with whom I want to learn to treat each other fairly, honestly and helpfully. 

 

Prayer:

Jesus, help us to feel that God looks with love on each of us, but also on those we do not like. Help us to know that we are connected to the great community of people, animals and plants on our earth and to treat each other well.

Let the sign of the cross, which was imprinted on us at our baptism, become a blessing through us for this often so sorrowful world.

 

Child: Jesus, you look with love on each one of us.

All:      Let us become just and helpful people.

 

 

 

13th Station

 

The body of Jesus is taken down from the cross

 

Leader: What do we see in the picture?

 

              The children tell.

 

A: When Mary gave birth to Jesus, she and her husband brought the little child to the temple in Jerusalem to pray for him.
At that time, Simeon, an old man, came to them and said: “This one is destined to bring down many mighty men and to raise up many oppressed people. But for you, Mary, a sword will pierce your soul.

B: Yes, Jesus accused the powerful and made the little people courageous and strong inside. Now the rulers have succeeded in killing him because of this. Mary cannot understand why all this has happened. Her pain is so great that she has no words.

 

Prayer:

Jesus, help us that we too may protect the weak against those who oppress and take advantage of them. Let us also fight for justice and consideration among brothers and sisters, comrades and friends.

And we ask you to comfort the mothers who cry because a child has died because of an illness or an accident.

 

Child: Jesus, you look with love on each one of us.

All:      Let us become just and helpful people.

 

 

 

14th Station

 

Jesus is laid in the tomb

 

Leader: What do we see in the picture?

 

              The children tell.

 

A: Every human being must die once. All life originated from the earth, and the earth takes all living beings - including humans - back to itself after their death.

B: But God placed the secret of love and eternity in the earth.
Where people love one another, they are not dead in the hearts of their fellow human beings when they die.

A: If, after death, we see everything in the new light that God gives us, we will understand each other much better and be able to respect and love everyone. And we will be more deeply connected with all the beings that God has created, with the whole of creation, than ever before and we will be able to rejoice with everyone - without fear or suffering.

B: Jesus gave people this knowledge after his death. They felt and experienced that he and the power of his love were not dead and gone.
That's when his friends realized: Whoever lives lovingly and justly and strives to improve life and the world, God himself is alive in them and God does not leave those in death who carry on his love.

 

Prayer:

Jesus, help us that we too may become loving and just people. Let us recognize that the earth and each of us carries within us the secret of divine love and eternity. Let us be good and caring stewards of our earth.

 

Child: Jesus, you look with love on each one of us.

All:      Let us become just and helpful people.

 

Song

A poster with a picture of the globe is held by two children. Everyone sings the song together: “God loves this world”, 1st and 6th verse

Or:

The leader holds out a handful of earth in a bowl to the children. Everyone sings the 1st and 3rd verses of the song “A handful of earth” (Songbooks). 

 

 

 

Conclusion:

 

A: Anyone who loves people like Jesus and works for justice in the world must expect rejection and often even hatred from those who are unjust, from those who oppress and exploit the weaker.
Anyone who really wants to be a Christian tries - like Jesus - to carry the love of God to all people and to work for a more just world.

B: And when he looks at the cross of Jesus, he knows that he must expect resistance and disadvantages if he takes the side of the disadvantaged and the weak.
But he also knows that Jesus is there and alive and wants to give us his spirit in our time so that we can learn to live without fear, without envy and without injustice and so that we - like him - can become self-confident and loving people. For he has shown us that we are all Children of God.

A: God looks at each of us with loving eyes and wants us to feel that everyone is unique, important and valuable.

 

Child: Jesus, you look with love on each one of us.

All:      Let us become just and helpful people.

 

 

 

Appendix

 

Prayer before the Cross

 

Jesus Christ,

self-righteous people have brought you to the cross.

But you did not curse your enemies, but you prayed for them.

You believed in love and justice until death.

Even the cruelty of the people

could not destroy your faith.

In your resurrection we recognize:

Whoever carries God's love within them and gives it to others,

cannot be held by death.

Your love was stronger than the hatred of men,

stronger than death and transience.

When I look at the cross,

then let me feel

that you are also close to me now.

Let me feel that you look at me with love

and that in your eyes I am precious,

important and lovable,

even if I am sometimes not understood by those around me

or if I've done something wrong

or when there is no love in me,

but only anger and dissatisfaction.

 

 

 

Information for the leader of the
Way of the cross

 

 

The crucifixion of Jesus in its redemptive effect

 

 

The Crucified Jesus shows how cruel, how unjust, how insensitive and hurtful we humans can be.

Some reacted out of their fear of the loss of power and positions of authority, the others wanted to remove an unwelcome critic, others simply let him down or abandoned him, they denounced their solidarity and friendship. And some of his followers took flight in panic, and hid themselves. The person who is slain and killed on the cross shows us like in a mirror what we are capable of doing when we become deeply afraid.

For it is fear that makes many people callous and hard, some even ruthless and cruel.

 

But we see by looking at the crucified not only the evil effects of our human actions, we also see the man who, in this terrible situation, prays for his tormentors: "Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do."

Jesus does not curse people, he does not curse the world in which it is so unjust and full of torment.

From the cross comes a message of mercy and love that human beings suffer in sinfulness and yet (he) does not discard us. Anyone who looks at the cross this way knows that one is radically taken seriously in one’s human limitations and guiltiness, but also in one’s "loving worthiness", which is seen from the perspective of God.

 

This is the experience of salvation:

To be deeply understood and recognized, and to recognize oneself deeply and yet to be acknowledged by God and held in His love.

The friends of Jesus make the second experience of salvation through the resurrection after such a death: the disciples experience God's action as a confirmation of the truth and validity of the life of Jesus.

 

Now they know who is so boundlessly loving life and men, who so fearlessly and bravely also opposes the powerful in religion and society for the incapacitated, the deprived, the oppressed, the excluded and the despised, in him is God’s Spirit alive, who lives in God and God lives in him, who gets an inner strength and a self-consciousness, so that he cannot be suppressed by the fearful and intimidating methods of the powerful and made small, he can with himself and his history be one and consistently stand to what he has recognized and lived as true and correct.

He will discover a freedom within himself as felt by Jesus, the “free man". He will be saved from the fear of being worth nothing, and he will be saved from the fear that the powerful in religion and society try to awaken in him to maintain their rule.

Thus, this experience of salvation has a dimension in the depths of self-perception and self-sufficiency of people, and it has a dimension in its social and political life.

 

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