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The shift of
emotional hunger (How we can better understand problematic
human behavior) Two basic
psychological needs: Humans don't just want to enjoy, they want to
be noticed and, if possible, even admired. They like it even better to be
envied. Because they want to be something special. This is about two basic emotional needs. From an early age, people
need both: they want to belong to their parents and later to human
communities and fit in. On the other hand, they want to be an original, a unique and special person. Being able to connect with
others and enjoy the feeling of belonging and, on the other hand, being able
to distinguish oneself from others and want to be perceived in the
individuality of one's own being is part of the basic psychological make-up
of human beings. In healthy childhood development, a person feels noticed by loving
parents. As an infant, the child is to a certain extent the center of
attention and the parents adjust their daily routine to the child's needs. In the defiant phase, the young child can also demonstrate its
otherness and willingness to be different to both parents, if they have a
healthy emotional leeway, and live it out to a certain extent.
Nevertheless, the child's sense of belonging to these parents is not
shaken. The situation is different if, for example, a baby is left alone for a
few weeks after birth because the mother has to
return to another clinic for treatment immediately after giving birth due to
her own illness. Those who were denied these two fundamental experiences of belonging
and being different as a child will spend their whole lives in an almost
greedy search for recognition and thus for self-discovery, as well as for the
opportunity to demonstrate their originality and thus their otherness in a
particularly striking way. There are many reasons why this essential
psychological hunger of a child has not been satisfied in a healthy and
sufficient way. The shift to a political, material or physical level The problem becomes apparent later when this child develops a need to
catch up as an adolescent or adult. The emotional shortfall in childhood can
also manifest itself later in other areas of life, e.g. in marriage, at work
or in leisure time. While in the area of personal relationships,
e.g. in the family, it manifests itself as a constant expectation towards
other family members, in other areas of life it can be shifted to the
structural, material or physical level. On the social
level, this emotional hunger manifests itself as greed for
power and domination, on the material
level as greed, on the physical
level as binge eating and alcohol addiction or as a mania for
thinness and beauty. Manfred
Hanglberger A proposed solution >>> LINK to share: https://hanglberger-manfred.de/en-verschiebung-von-seelischem-hunger.htm
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